Okay so sometimes snuggling doesn't fix everything

(JD here) LOL, what a crazy 3 days it has been. I have a new found respect for so many people, the least of which not being my wife. What a great mother she will be (is). It is actually funny to me how serious she takes being a "good mother" of course she had an amazing mother, so maybe that has something to do with it. Here is a bit of advice for any would be adoptive parents: make all of your plans WELL IN ADVANCE, and for you men out there who are as laid back as I am and think things will work themselves out when the time comes, you are right (because things always do) BUT...it will make your life so much easier if you have the basic strategies of who will run the kids to and from school, what days of the week your work schedule differs, and basically all around week planning. Main reason: it comes a lot faster than you think!